It really sounds as a weird illusory scenario … but maybe it’s not.
Being in love … it’s amazing.
Not being in love … and watching a couple enjoying being together … totally ignoring the world which surrounds them … we somehow find the scenario… ridiculous.
And … i dare to say … maybe it’s not.
I start to think deeper … why while being into a love story … we basically start to live into a parallel world … and i would like to know if it is good or not.
But … again … i have contradictory ideas …. balancing between believing it’s good … but also not good.
I smile …. remembering about such episodes from my life.
I … actually … have moments when i laugh remembering about those times.
Today … somehow i feel that being in love it is actually a way of disconnecting from reality… and living in a totally differently world.
For many might look … toxic.
Even for one of the partners … might look …. unhealthy, that they totally ignore the world they are living in.
So … into one point … even if all is actually amazing into that parallel world …. both partners reconnect again to the world they come from.
And they do it … so often … that reality of this world we are living in … becomes more and more powerful as influence.
One day … it starts dominating again … both partners and … the intensity of the love story becomes weaker and weaker … till it totally fades.
They don’t even … realise it … until it’s all too late.
So … they ask themselves … what the hell is going on …. cause the magic has gone?!
Well … i personally trend to believe that the partner which was afraid of totally disconnecting from the real world … ruined all.
Cause … trying all the time … to remind that it’s not healthy … first of all mentally … to live just into their world created by the story … became into the end the key factor which is not allowing them to remain connected to the magic.
Not believing that love is all … and they don’t really need anything else… all is ruined.
So …. magic just disappeared.
Influences of the real world … become dominant again … and …
All becomes …. normal …
The beauty of the love story … fades so, so much … soon we realise …. It all became just a beautiful memory … and
nothing else.
But why?!
Why?!
Why?!
… simple.
Yes … very simple.
We did not believed into the magic of life, being afraid to disconnect from the dogmatic reality.
Universe sent us into the love story … but … we could not remain only into that parallel reality.
And ….
Well … maybe we just don’t clearly understand such concepts … and when we maybe understand it …. it’s too late.
… cause all it’s lost.
And …. all was related to the fear … of being happy … in continuous form … in that amazing love story.
So …
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